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A FINE MARRIAGE MEANING

On Saturday, I saw some group of beautiful ladies and handsome men gorgeously dressed in what is called "Ashoebi" walking down the street behind a well decorated Range Rover Jeep written "Just Wedded." Among the men, were others who were playing great melodious songs  🎼 on different musical instruments 🎺 🎻 🥁 . It was such a stunning sight to behold. Infact, it's better seen than said. However, something spectacular came to my mind as I beheld such beautiful scene which I called "Fine Wedding." In my evaluation, it was a well planned, organised and expensive fine wedding but the question I kept asking myself was "Is it really a fine marriage?" Now, what makes for a fine marriage? Psychologists, Psychotherapist s, Marriage coaches, Self-help books and others do their best to define what makes for a good marriage and how you can keep the love in your marriage and make the love last. However, research shows that despite all the help and artic...

WISE THOUGHT

Are there things in your life that you are holding on to yet you know that those things are not good for you? For example, that toxic emotional abusive relationship, the smoke and the alcohol? It is time to let it go. Someone said that the chains of addiction is too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken. Whatever it is that is not working out for you pay attention to it and decide on what to do. Some personal items like cloths, shoes, tools etc that you are not using again please give them out to people that need them. Holding on to things that are not functional tend to keep you busy but without progress. Remember, to travel fast you must travel light. Keep moving holding on to things that matters. KDG

Holding on

Are there things in your life that you are holding on to yet you know that those things are not good for you? For example, that toxic emotional abusive relationship, the smoke and the alcohol? It is time to let it go. Someone said that the chains of addiction is too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken. Whatever it is that is not working out for you pay attention to it and decide on what to do. Some personal items like cloths, shoes, tools etc that you are not using again please give them out to people that need them. Holding on to things that are not functional tend to keep you busy but without progress. Remember, to travel fast you must travel light. Keep moving holding on to things that matters. 

WHAT AN AFRICAN GIRL GOES THROUGH

TALES OF AFRICAN GIRL I would wash my hands first. Followed by my elder sister and elder brother and my mother. Although my mum doesn't eat with us, she washes her hands with us. She said it makes her feel fulfilled. Everyone would expect me to clear where we ate and tidy up since I am the last born but I would wait until they shout at me before I do it. I would wait until they say "don't you know that you should tidy up? Don't you Know that we are expecting a visitor?" And then I would get up slowly, as if being controlled by a remote control and start to clean up slowly. After then, I would go and sit down and expect a quiet knock. A very quiet knock. The knock is usually quiet because the person knocking does not want the walls to hear its voice. The walls has ears and they sit every night acting like owls. Then I would run to the door and ask "who is there?" Even though I know who the person is. Even though I know that I shouldn't ask so that the...

BEST MARRIAGE ADVICES

The word "Eden" is an Hebrew word for "where God dwells", so the first thing God gave man was "His Presence". 1. So the first thing a man needs is NOT a woman; it is the presence of God, and a woman should meet him in the presence of God. Eve met Adam in Eden. 2. The next thing God gave man after putting him in the Garden was WORK. (Gen. 2:15). God gave man work before giving him a woman. That means a man needs a job before he gets a woman. God's priorities are very clear. 3. The third thing God told man was "Cultivate".... .. Cultivate here means, bring out the best in everything around you, to maximize the potentials of everything and everyone around you; to make everything fruitful. He only said that to the male. That's why God will never give a man a finished woman. The male was created by God to create whatever he wants. The woman you are looking for doesn't exist; she's in your head. Your job is to take the raw material you ...

Funny stories of Dr titus

 ™ "What has been your worst broken heart experience so far? " I was asked.  So I met this girl around january,This year.I expressed my feeling to her and she said she would be thinking about it, that I should give her like a month to think about it.She said she wasn't ready to fall in love with any man now. After a month had passed,I asked her about it and she insisted on her words.  One day, she sent a message to me on whatsapp that she need a beautiful birthday poem for someone very special to her heart.  I thought it was her mum or her dad "Wow, this is where I would enter this girl" I beamed, Joyfully.  I forgot to write it in the afternoon but later when I woke up in the midnight to urinate, I quickly use water to wipe my face and then wrote ten beautiful stanzas for her.  I sent it to her on whatsapp, followed by "I'm sorry that I sent it late".  She read it the messages and replied with "ok".  After a minute, she updated her Whats...